How To Make A Good Impression On A First Date

How To Make A Good Impression On A First Date

You’re out on a first date. Come to the date with expectant energy. If you are going to make the effort and take the time to look nice, doesn’t it make sense to also take the time to put yourself in the right frame of mind? Let’s talk about how to make a good impression on a first date. 

It certainly does! I have to say that this step is even more important than what outfit you’re wearing or how nice your hair turned out. You can be Cindy Crawford, Tyra Banks, and Angelina Jolie all rolled into one and it still won’t guarantee that you will get asked out on a second date. I suggest that you take some time before your date—it could be fifteen minutes, five minutes or even three minutes—to sit down, close your eyes, take a deep breath, let Spirit in, and visualize just how you would like your evening to go.

Picture everything going smoothly. Picture yourself having a pleasant time with this new person who also might be nervous, excited, frustrated with dating, or all of the above and more. Let any past negative dating experiences go. They have no place in your heart or mind anymore.

This is a new day, a new person, and a new chance. Affirm to yourself that your experience will be just great, and fill yourself with positive expectation. Affirm how wonderful and special you are and just how deserving of a perfect relationship you are. You can also affirm and accept that if this person is not your soul mate, the right one is on the way, and know that each new person you meet can bring something interesting and wonderful to your life. For instance, on a date with Marcia during which you have no romantic chemistry, she is so impressed with your positive, upbeat and fun personality that she wants to introduce you to her best friend Tina who is also single and looking for Mr. Right!

So, when you put yourself in a positive frame of mind before you even leave the house, you’re ahead of the game. And that’s how to make a good impression on a first date.

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