If marriage is your priority, then treat it as such. If the man that you are dating seems uninterested in making a commitment or has made comments against marriage. Lets talk about giving the ultimatum to a man who doesn’t commit. The man I was dating before I met my husband did exactly that. We got along great, had a lot of passion and fun together, but in front of me he would make anti-marriage comments. One in particular blew me away. He was on the telephone talking to his buddy who was getting married in a few weeks. Mark was going to be his best man. He was telling him, “Hey, John, it’s not too late to get out of it, you know.” I could tell that John was saying something like, “Oh, no, I don’t want to get out of it!” But Mark kept pushing, saying, “Are you sure? Come on, you don’t have to do this.” It was a clear sign of where our own relationship was going—nowhere!